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Ep 11: Nothing Is Going as Planned | Habits To Win Here and Hereafter

January 19, 2022Dr. Tesneem Alkiek

When something feels off, things aren't going to plan, or we find it difficult to get anything done, that's our cue to pause and self-reflect. That's the path of the greatest scholars who overcame similar setbacks by holding themselves accountable so barakah could re-enter their lives.

When nothing is going as planned

Have you ever had one of these days? It's 6am and your alarm is buzzing. You wake up and fall straight into routine: turn off the alarm, remember God, make wudhu, and pray. You've invited the barakah into your life and have set your priorities straight.

Yet, when you try to memorize the Qur'an immediately after, you can't focus and nothing is sticking. Later on, as you try to do some work, you can't seem to collect your thoughts. Nothing is going as planned, even after doing everything according to the book.

Unproductivity and bad deeds

Some of the greatest scholars to have existed also experienced these types of setbacks.

Imam Al-Shaafi'i, one of the founders of the four schools of law composed a poem describing his lack of productivity.

He said, "I complained to my teacher of my inability to memorize properly, so he advised me to leave off bad deeds. And he informed me that knowledge is light, and that the light of God is not granted to one who engages in bad deeds."

Pause for self-reflection

This is a powerful reality check that is still relevant today. If we're not being productive, can't focus or do what we need to get things done, it's a cue that we need to pause and engage in self-reflection.

Just like we can invite barakah into our lives by waking up early and starting our day with the remembrance of Allah, we can repel barakah from our lives by engaging in actions that are forbidden or displeasing to Allah.

In many cases the latter outweighs the former: one small bad habit can taint our entire day. So if things don't seem to be going according to plan, consider this to be your internal alarm system signaling that something might be off. Allow it to motivate you to be self-aware and reflect on the other things you're doing in your life.

Hold yourself accountable

Umar ibn Al-Khattab reminded us, "hold yourselves accountable in this life before you're held accountable by God in the next life." Being self-critical serves as an opportunity to recalibrate your compass so that if anything is threatening the barakah in your life, you can set the intention for positive change and correct re-enters your life

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Transcript

This transcript was auto-generated using AI and may contain misspellings.
It's 6am and your alarm is buzzing. You wake up and fall straight into routine. Turn off alarm? Check. Remember God? Check. Make wudu and pray? Check. You've invited the barakah into your life and have set your priorities straight. And yet here you are with your Qur'an wide open trying to memorize, but nothing is sticking. You've read the verses countless of times, but you can't seem to focus. Later on, you're behind your computer screen ready to start some deep work, but you still can't seem to collect your thoughts. Nothing is going as planned. So perhaps you're in disbelief. I'm doing everything according to the book. Why aren't my good habits kicking in, allowing me to be productive? Believe me when I say that I've had plenty of these days. And you know who else experienced these types of setbacks? Some of the greatest scholars to have existed. Imam Al-Shafi'i, one of the founders of the four schools of law, actually composed a poem describing his lack of productivity. Shakawtu ila waki'a nsu'a hifli He says, I complained to my teacher waki'a of my inability to memorize properly. Fa'arshadani ila tarqil ma'asi So he advised me to leave off bad deeds. Wa akhbarani bi'anna al'ilma nurun And he informed me that knowledge is life. Fa'arshadani ila tarqil ma'asi So he advised me to leave off bad deeds. Wa akhbarani bi'anna al'ilma nurun And he informed me that knowledge is light. Wa nurullahi la yuhdaari aasi And that the light of God is not granted to one who engages in bad deeds. This is a powerful reality check that is still relevant for all of us today. If we're not being productive, if we can't get focused or memorize or get what we need to get done, it's a cue that we need to pause and engage in self-reflection. What else am I doing in my day? Do I start off strong and end the night falling back in my bad habits? Am I watching or listening to things I shouldn't? Talking badly about others? Forgetting or neglecting to pray? Because ultimately, just like we can invite barakah into our lives by waking up early and starting our day by remembering Allah, we can repel barakah from our lives by engaging in actions that are forbidden or displeasing to Allah.
And in many cases, the latter outweighs the former, meaning that one small bad habit can taint our entire day. So if things don't seem to be going according to plan, consider this to be your internal alarm system signaling that something might be off. And rather than let it turn you off, allow it to motivate you to be self-aware and reflect on other things you're doing in your life. As Amr bin Khattab, may Allah be pleased with him, so acutely reminded us, حاسبوا أنفسكم قبل أن تحاسبوا Hold yourselves accountable in this life before you're held accountable by God in the next life. And while being self-critical is no fun job, know the purpose that it serves. It's an opportunity to recalibrate your compass, to ask yourself yet again, why do I do what I do? And be realistic with yourself. There's some degree of worldly pleasure that we get by engaging in certain bad habits. But when we constantly have that big picture in mind, and our final goals guiding our day-to-day habits, we can ask ourselves, is what I'm doing worth it? And let's not kid ourselves either. Getting rid of bad habits is no easy feat. But just like any habit, you initiate change with a mindset. So next time your internal alarm system goes off, think about what you might be doing that is threatening the barakah in your life, and take the first small step by setting your intention for positive change. And when the barakah re-enters your life as a result of your initiative, I guarantee you that you won't have any regrets.
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