There are other narrations like the one just mentioned where the Prophet Muhammad expresses his disapproval of domestic violence. The study paper gives a strong example of a woman named al-Waleed ibn Uqbah complaining about her husband to the Prophet Muhammad.
“She said, “O Messenger of God! Al-Waleed has beaten me!” The Prophet responded, “Say to him: the Prophet has protected me.” It was not long before she returned, saying, “He did not give me anything except more beatings!” The Prophet then tore a piece from his garment [as a symbol of proof for his protection] and said, “Say to him: Verily, the Messenger of God has given me protection.” It was not long before she returned once more and said, “He did not give me anything except more beatings!” The Prophet then raised his hands and said: “O God, you must deal with al-Waleed, for he has sinned against me twice.”
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In another case, the Prophet actively supported Habeeba bint Sahl, the wife of Thabit bin Qays and the Prophet Muhammad's next-door neighbour, in leaving an abusive relationship. Habeeba came to the Prophet Muhammad's door after Thabit struck her. She explained her situation to him and told him, "Thabit and I can no longer be married." The Prophet then called Thabit, arranged their finances, and ensured Habeeba could return home safely.
14The Prophet Muhammad also made efforts to ensure that women would not be married to bad men in addition to the actions taken. It was reported that the Prophet asked Fatima bint Qays if she was prepared for marriage. Usama ibn Zayd, Abu Jahm, and Muawiyah had all proposed to her. The Prophet told her, "As for Muawiyah, he is a poor man without money [and cannot sufficiently provide for you]," to help her make the right choice. Abu Jahm, on the other hand, is a man who frequently hits women. Therefore, I suggest that you wed Usama.
15What does Islam say about domestic violence? It is well-answered in the Yaqeen journal article and in a related one titled
Women in Islamic Law: Examining Five Prevalent Myths.
This month, people in communities around the nation pause to reflect on the social ill of domestic violence and how it affects our communities. Many activists, leaders, and involved community members want to follow Islam's method and example in dealing with domestic violence in a challenging and terrible society.
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Yaqeen Institute for more on this topic.